Friends in Faraway Places

friend

–noun

1.a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard.
2.a person who gives assistance; patron; supporter:
3.a person who is on good terms with another;

To me these definitions do not even describe the word friend and what it really means to me.

To me, a friend is so much more than words. To me a friend is someone who knows you maybe even better than you know yourself. Someone who knows your thoughts when it's too painful to say them out loud. A friend is someone who you don't have to ask to be there. They know when you need help, guidance or space. To me a friend is someone who you create an unbreakable bond with.

A friend is so much more than that person you went to high school with. A true friend is - your person.

To me, the most important thing about your Person, is that even when you are worlds apart they are still there for you. No borders can keep a friend away, they will always be there, with words, with kindness and with support.

The most important thing is friendship. Family can be friends, friends can become lovers, the point is that the root of anything should be friendship. A friendship that is unbreakable is a solid foundation for anything.

I would like to take this opportunity to thank my People. You are my rocks and mean more to me than you know. There is so much in this life that I could not have done without your love, support and most of all friendship.

Blue Blue Monday

So I haven't really found myself suffering from Blue Monday Fever for a while now, I thought that was because with no job and no life the days sort of blended together and Monday simply meant the start of another week of nothingness.

Well today I found myself waking up on completely the wrong side of the bed and even after going back to sleep and trying again on the other side, (I have no job so I can do that) I felt no better.

Now I guess I do know the bottom reason of my bad feelings, I have a very amazing friend in a very serious condition and I find that that is all I can think about. She is in my every thought and every prayer and nothing I do can shake my feeling of sadness.

But then I read Crazii's post for the day and see that she too is feeling that sense of Monday doom and then I think well maybe friends are connected and we could be feeding of each others negative energies? Is that possible across continents? I mean I've heard of girls that live together or work together (ie spend too much time together) will eventually come on the same menstrual cycle - maybe that's God's way of keeping the cat fights within one week a month.

So for now I will resort to actually doing some work to earn minimal monies, or rather indulge in some online shopping to try keep my mind on the moment and try rid myself of the not so nice thoughts. On the other hand, maybe I'll just go back to bed and try again...

Weekend Travels

Well folks, friends and followers I am off on yet another American adventure as we jump in the car and set off to Panama City for the weekend.

Now as my American folk tales tell me, Panama City is a place of parties, booze and spring break. Now as I guess it is not spring this may not be the case.

So I will endeavor to find out as much as I can about the life of this elusive party town and will gladly report back on any findings I may find worthy of posting on Pop Tarts Travels.

Have a great weekend and I hope to hear lots of stories on Monday. Crazii Redhead and Thunder Struck have a fantabulous time at the hen party and try not to cause too much trouble.

Play nice Ya’ll.