Sunday, January 24, 2010

The Hunt is On

So the first step for this year is to find a job. Why do we always have to do the hardest things first??

Living in Birmingham Alabama doesn't exactly pour opportunities your way so The Other Half and I have made an executive decision to fly North East to the little town called the Nation's Capital in search of fame and fortune.

Apparently DC is where it happens and as The Other Half has his roots and interest in the government and security and secret James Bond stuff we thought this would be the best place to begin our search.

Now as for me...a little PR "poppie" with a flair for events...we have to pull out all the stops. OK, so in Cape Town I'm pretty good at what I do right - I mean we won awards and stuff! But you think that means anything over here? You think my little Varsity College qualification carries any weight? Probably not right?

So I have to rely on my charm and pretty smile - a little bit of a problem when you have to buy a plane ticket for every interview - assuming I actually get called to any interviews!

So, day after day I resort to online applications, hopes and prayers - and some slightly more colorful words when a letter arrives in my inbox saying the position has been filled.

But for now - wish me luck and if you know of anyone looking for the employee of their dreams in and around DC please give them my name!

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Amzing times past and exciting times to come

I’m back!!!

It has been an enormously long time since I’ve written and I feel horrible that I have so badly neglected Pop Tarts Travels! But really, when faced with sun, sand, cocktails, food, family and friends…who wants to sit in front of a computer?!

But I am back and I feel that this is the start of many great and hopefully interesting things to come so that I can attempt to entertain you people who may get tired of staring out of your Cape Town office windows and glaring at that horrible boring view of the sea and mountains.

Last night I landed back on USA soil after what seemed like the shortest three weeks of my life spent in paradise. OK it was only Cape Town but you really do only realize how wonderful it is there after you have left and returned.

I had the most amazing time with my beautiful family and awesome friends. I got to get to know the two most adorable boys on this earth, my munchkin nephews. I got to eat the best food (yes lots of sushi) and sip (or gulp) refreshing cocktails. I got a tan, peeled and lost it and got another one. I drove, I sailed, I slept in the most comfortable bed in the world (OK maybe not but I’ve missed that bed!)

When the dreaded day of departure came I was not only a nervous wreck for the family farewells which I always dread but I was also anticipating a travel nightmare. Now firstly, I have to commend myself on managing to pack 99% of my wardrobe and still be under the baggage weight allowance (darn I could have packed a couple more pairs of shoes!).

The England leg of the trip was a breeze as usual due to my prized UK passport, but the USA leg was the one I was not looking forward to. Expecting insanely increased security due to the kind fellow who thought it would be a great idea to try and blow up another US plane in the name of religion. But I was mistaken. Yes, I could feel that they had upped security levels, but it took no longer than usual and was a pleasure to see that some people actually do do their jobs to ensure my safety.

My next expected nightmare … border control…dun dun duuuuun. This is my first time entering the USA as a permanent resident and for some reason I was petrified! But I was happy to discover that this benefit now allows me to stand in the short line at customs and enter without too many questions!

All in all a pleasant experience and I am safe and sound with all luggage accounted for.

So for 2010 you can expect to read exciting things, hopefully about getting a job, moving house and wedding plans!

But for today I feel I have bored you enough and so with that I sign off.

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Trying to Replace My People

One of the tricky things when you move to a new place or a mainly to a new country is finding replacements for your people.

At home and over time we develop a list of people who we rely on a very regular basis. We all have our fabulous hair dressers, our amazing mani and pedi people and of course our waxing goddesses.

So the trick is when you move to a new place you have to try and find new people who are just as wonderful as the people you left behind. Of course you can go with word of mouth referrals which is generally the best idea but we all have our little things and the way that we like things done so finding people who will do this for us may be hard.

So although I know I will never be able to replace my amazing mani and pedi people or my beautiful waxing goddess I guess I have to try as these are necessities that a girl has to do, but then you also don’t want to mess around with things like waxing and trust to me is a major issue.

But I can happily say that I think I have found my new hair person and she made me smile today.

So I continue the search for my other people and this doesn’t even include doctors and dentists but the of course those are not my primary concerns.

Monday, December 14, 2009

The Immigration Sage – Complete for Now

So today my friend the post man delivered some wonderful news - I am officially a permanent resident of The United States of America.

It is not so much the fact that this has happened and happened so quickly that makes me happy but more a feeling of personal achievement for doing it all myself.

Some people said I was crazy and some people said I was brave but having decided to tackle it myself before hiring an immigration lawyer proved the best and cheaper way. So I have officially won my case without any questions or reviews and I now hole the card.

So I guess I am now just waiting for a social security number – I think I need one of those and I will be all set. This is of course until I need to renew the card in two years and then I assume the paperwork will start again.

Next step I believe is to remain a resident for five years and then America will decide whether I am good enough to be a citizen. I guess I had better start studying – yes I will have to take a test…

But until then I will relax and will try not to bug the poor souls at USCIS.

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Just another Birthday

So in the run up to the big two-seven I have been in pre crisis mode – you know – knowing that on the day that you wake up and you are no longer 26, you are going to feel like death is breathing his bad morning breath down your neck and when you get up and dare look into the mirror you are going to see even more crows feet and deep etched wrinkles. You make a mental note that you will have to book a botox appointment, a boob lift and some lipo and start going to the gym more. But then you think that this is just way too much effort and the easier thing is just to crawl back into bed and hope it is all just a bad dream.

I have been dreading this birthday like I dread going to the dentist. It’s not so much about getting older but more about the fact that I went from having a great job and a destination to turning one year older and having no job and no idea where I am going.

But then I woke up on that fateful day and was pleased to notice that I still looked the same, my boobs were still in the same place and … ok I’m still pretty keen on the lipo but that’s besides the point.

The good thing I guess is that I came to think that maybe life is not all about the destination and more about the adventure and I have my whole life to work and make a name for myself so maybe I should just enjoy the time off.

I also came to think that in the past year I have lived in three different countries and that has been pretty cool too.

So I have been able to put the mid life crisis on hold for another year, it was a little easier to delay than I thought – one reason could be that due to the fact that I have no job I have no money to go blow on clothes, shoes and plastic surgery. (My other half helped to ease the pain a little with 3 pairs of boots as a birthday present!)

Maybe when the clock ticks this time next year I will have more accomplishments to hold onto to make me feel a little better. I think I am already kicking into pre crisis mode though in terms of finding a good surgeon (Thunder you can not talk me out of this one!)

All in all I had a great birthday, with family, food and cake. And you are never too old to blush during Happy Birthday.

Saturday, November 28, 2009

My First Thanksgiving

So I can successfully say that I have experienced Thanksgiving and thoroughly enjoyed it. I mean who wouldn’t – food, family and Shopping!

So the day started bright and early making sure that all the food was cooked and the tables were set. Family started arriving and we sat down to eat lunch which was a feast fit for a king! With the traditional turkey and stuffing and so much more I was impressed with my will-power to only have one helping (OK there really was only room for one helping and I had to make sure there was room for pudding!)

During lunch we went around the table and shared what we are thankful for. It really is good to thin about it and reflect on the people and things in life that mean so much to us and the opportunities we have been given. I am so thankful for the opportunity to come to a new country to live and experience all the cultures and traditions. I am so thankful for my family back home and everything they have done for me during my life. I am also thankful for my new family here in America, for taking care of me and making me feel so welcome and loved.

After playing some board games with the family we went to bed as full as ticks, ready for another full day tomorrow.

So apparently another thanksgiving tradition is shopping – I’m not sure of the history or reason behind it but I’m not complaining or gonna ask questions. Black Friday is the day after thanksgiving and consists of shopping, shopping and more shopping. We were up at 4 am to head to the stores where absolutely everything was on sale! I was in heaven!!! We shopped for a magnificent couple of hours then went off for lunch to stuff ourselves further.

Headed home unable to move and we watched the traditional iron bowl football (of course there had to be some football and yes Alabama won) and crashed into bed shortly after.

All in all I had a great thanksgiving and can’t wait until next year!

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Thanksgiving - The Story

So for my friends and followers not entitled to a couple of days off work for this holiday, let me being by shedding some light on this day of giving thanks.
Thanksgiving is celebrated on the fourth Thursday of November with large Thanksgiving dinners being held on this day, usually as a gathering of family members and friends.

In the United States, certain Thanksgiving meals normally feature turkey (so much so that Thanksgiving is sometimes referred to as "Turkey Day"). Stuffing, mashed potatoes with gravy, sweet potatoes, cranberry sauce, sweet corn, vegetables, and pumpkin pie are commonly associated with Thanksgiving dinner. As an alternative to turkey, many vegetarians or vegans eat tofurky, it’s unlikely that I will get to try this as me being a veggie is has caused many raised eyebrows and the mention of tofu generally arouses the gag reflex of those Americans in my presence.

So to break it down Barney style; The tradition of Thanksgiving started some four hundred years ago when some of the people in England, for various religious reasons, fled their homes, and went far off to a country called Holland and began to call themselves "Pilgrims."

In Holland, the Pilgrims were happy for a while, but then for further reasons, they made up their minds to move to America. The Mayflower was the vessel which would take them across the sea.

After sailing two months the Mayflower came in sight of land; but instead of finding grass and flowers and birds, there was nothing to be seen but rocks, sand and hard bare ground because it winter.

Some of the Pilgrims went on shore to see if they could find any houses or people, but they only saw some wild Indians, who ran away from them. They searched and searched until they found somewhere to live. Then at last, on Christmas Day, all the tired Pilgrims could leave the ship settled on a spot now called Plymouth Rock. But the weather was cold, the snow fell fast and thick, the wind was icy and they got very sick that first winter. But over time the sun shone more brightly, the snow melted, the leaves began to grow, and spring had come again.

Some friendly Indians had visited the Pilgrims during the winter and one of the kind Indians was called Squanto came to stay with the Pilgrims, and showed them how to plant corn, peas, wheat and barley.

As the seasons passed the Pilgrims learned the land when autumn came, the fathers gathered the barley and wheat and corn that they had planted, and found that it had grown so well that they would have enough for the long winter that was coming.
"Let us thank God for it all," they said. "It is He who has made the sun shine and the rain fall and the corns grow." "Then," said the Pilgrim mothers, "let us have a great Thanksgiving party, and invite the friendly Indians."

So they had the first Thanksgiving party. The men went out hunting, and brought back so many wild ducks and geese and great wild turkeys that there was enough to eat for almost a week. Then the Pilgrim mothers made the corn and wheat into bread and cakes.

The friendly Indians all came with their chief Massasoit and each meal, before they ate anything, the Pilgrims and the Indians gave thanks for everything good that has happened for them. The Indians sang and danced in the evenings, and every day they ran races and played all kinds of games with the children.
And that my friends, is thanksgiving. So now I am off to celebrate and give thanks and eat lots.